Okay here is a new toy. Well new for me. It's the Mila Grid flash diffuser. It's pretty cool. Looks like a big fly swatter and you bend it over your flash. What it does is soften the light coming of the flash so you don't get that nasty flash effect look to your shots. I shot this with flash on 1/16 power about 5.6 on camera flash. ISO was 400 and I am getting just a light touch from the flash to open up the shadows but not overpower the shot. The Idea is to make look as if the is no flash at all. You can see some catch lights in the eyes and that is the only tip off that the was flash used. Oh by the way http://www.milagrid.com/ I got mine in a couple of days
Aloha